In this modern age one might be forgiven to think that getting a guy is actually getting simpler for women. While for some this might be the case, still for a considerably large percentage, getting a guy proves to be an elusive dream! The silver lining though, is that getting guys tends to be a lot easier than getting a lady. The trick is combining various factors that really prove valuable to guys. This you may couple with doing things that improve your odds of landing him.
1. Go out and mingle.
There are too many different guys such that landing one tends to prove an easy task. But the most important thing for you to realize is that guys are there but out there! You need to position yourself in ideal places that guys frequently visit like bars. But going out does not necessarily mean that you actually go out. It may also mean being open minded about opportunities that may land you a guy. For example when an attractive guy smiles at you, go up to him and say hello!
2. Looking good is a must.
Guys generally tend to be very responsive to what they see. For you to stand a chance of getting a guy you should strive to look good. This can be achieved by applying make up that suits you, working on your body shape, dressing well and having that cute smile on you. Smiling makes you pleasant and approachable. We all know that the first step of getting him is him approaching you.
3. Do not be an open book!
The thing that makes people flip the pages of novels is they are curious to find out more. Similarly, if you want to get a guy it is very important for you to keep him interested. Being completely open may not guarantee you subsequent meets. You should make him eager to learn more about you and use some hero instinct
phrases to draw his attention.
4. Do not hear him, listen to him!
People communicate more than just the communication they do through words. For you to be able to connect with him, pay attention to the non verbal communication he gives up. By listening to him, you will show him that you understand him and it will definitely help you keep him.
5. Be normal.
This is definitely something you may consider as not that important but you will be surprised by the consequences that may arise from not being normal. It is possible for you not to be normal but the challenge that may arise is that you do not know him well hence not conforming to normal parameters may make you lose him. Unless you know what he likes, act naturally and refrain from trying excessively to impress him.
Getting guys may be difficult but for sure with a combination of the above, your odds improve significantly.